My little man turned two on Saturday and we threw him a pool party at our neighborhood clubhouse. We've been in a heat wave here, and because we were transporting the food from our house down the street, I wanted the menu to be easy and not require lots of oven time. I also wanted to incorporate all of Asher's favorite foods, but make it adult friendly too since the majority of the guests were our friends and family. And of course, I planned on it all being grain and dairy free.
Asher is currently obsessed with eating everything with a toothpick, so I also wanted the menu to be finger foods with as much skewered on toothpicks as possible. As to be expected with a toddler, especially when there's friends and games around, he didn't touch 1 bite of the food I prepared! Not even a cupcake. He's not much of a sweets guy, but I keep hoping for those quintessential birthday photos of cake and frosting smeared all over his face and he never pulls through! All of the guests thoroughly enjoyed the food though and didn't even know it was grain & dairy free, so mission accomplished!
Instead of making burgers into patties, I quadrupled the recipe and rolled them into 60 bite-sized meatballs to avoid the use of forks. I used my sugar-free U.S. Wellness Meats bacon and omitted the bbq sauce and added a little dry mustard and garlic powder. Nearly 6 pounds of meat is pretty difficult to mix with your hands, so I used the dough hook with my kitchen aid and it mixed the meats together perfectly. I also omitted the chili powder and paprika to make sure the littlest guests would be able to enjoy them. We skewered the “meatballs” with lettuce, a pickle and a grape tomato and they were the perfect bite. The platter was cleared out before everything else and people kept asking “What is making these taste SO good?!”
Here is the full menu:
- PB&J (or AB&J) Sandwiches on my Grain-Free Sandwich Bread
- Massive Fruit Salad (prepared by my awesome Grandma – Watermelon turtle idea from Pinterest!)
- Bacon Burger Bites (you can use the Bacon Burger recipe from Against all Grain page 176)
- Chocolate Chip Cookies
- Veggie Platter with “Ranch” Dip
- All Beef Hot Dog Bites (Applegate Farms)
- Double Chocolate Chip Cupcakes with Meringue Frosting from Against all Grain (I used this recipe and omitted the cherry)
- Strawberry Shortcake Cupcakes
Just a little disclaimer because I'm asked this so often – No, Asher is not 100% Paleo. We eat the way we do primarily because of my auto-immune disease, but also because we've learned so much about the science of food now that we wouldn't go back even if I didn't have this disease. Asher doesn't have any food allergies and his tummy can handle everything just fine, so he eats certain grains and grass-fed dairy frequently. He is 100% gluten-free. When we're home he eats what I make, but he also loves brown rice cakes, gluten-free Canyon Bakehouse bread, plain grass-fed yogurt, and french fries (usually a treat when we're out to eat). He's fruit obsessed, so that's in my favor, and he will also down his vegetables when they're in a Thai curry sauce.
Debra
I just LOVE all your beautiful photos and reading about your recipes! I am a celiac since 1996 and things have sure come a long way! Getting into almond and coconut flours finally! My family is obsessed with your zucchini bread! Thanks so very much for your website!!
Harmony
Thank you so much for your recipes. We love them so much! As far as your parenting goes- you are a rock star parent. You mean- you love your kid enough to keep him away from the foods that will make him sick and fat later in life? We have one child who is gluten intolerant. As I researched food I figured out what was bad for him, was equally as bad for us. We are a family of six and all six of us came off of gluten, pasteurized dairy and sugar- THANKS to him! I guess I’m a bad parent too. 🙂 Well, let’s keep our bad parenting up, it should end up in some pretty healthy kids. Thanks again for your blog. Your food is always outstanding, and your photos are picture perfect.
Rachel Discenza
Wow talk about talented! I love your food ideas they are so creative! Thanks.
tracey anne
I think you are doing a fabulous job. I have three children and have been following paleo for about a year now. Naturally my whole family follows suit however they also have selected dairy and grains. It used to bother me that people had negative view on what I feed my children, thinking I was depriving them somehow of fun. At the end of the day it is them who are depriving their children of nutrients and good foundations of a long and healthy life.
Deanna
Beautiful spread. I love the wraps on those cupcakes and that watermelon turtle is totally adorable.
(And, if anyone criticizes your parenting they should be slapped. 🙂 )
Jaclyn
Somebody needs to tell the Paleo Police to lay off! There’s no reason why you should be worried about discussing your family members’ diets on your blog. My kids are probably 70% Paleo, and I make no apologies to anyone – neither the Paleo Police NOR the Paleo-Haters. Live and let live – eat and let eat! 🙂
I just wanted to say a HUGE thank you for such a beautiful party inspiration! My children celebrate their birthdays with lots of friends who have food intolerances and this is such a great example of a wonderful and accessible menu! Thanks again. 🙂
Dawn @cuter than gluten
That looks like such a nice party. I really like the little “cups” for the cookies. And the turtle is cute! Your disclaimer is very comforting to me. Being a parent is tricky (for me) and it is comforting to know other parents are finding balance with nutrition studies/ real world/ the individual child, etc. Thank you for saying all of that!
Jecka
That looks so wonderful! I also saw on Facebook your mention of the woman who commented on your tweet saying you’re a bad mother for serving PB&J at your son’s birthday party! I hope that person checks out this blog post and sees how awesome of a mommy you are!
erin reardon
What great ideas … I have two boys and was thinking of doing baseball … I am so excited … We love the 50 50 burgers … and even better bite size and on a tooth pick … by the way both mine boys 4 and 1 LOVE a toothpick 🙂 Thanks for the inspiration
Lauren @ Empowered Sustenance
This looks like a beautiful Paleo feast! I think I’ll try your meatball bites for an appetizer. I love the little baking cups you used for the cookies!
Jennifer Nowell
Thank you for the great party ideas. I’ve been trying to steer my children to be more paleo just bc I believe it’s healthy! I really want to make your bread for an AB&J:)
Kathleen Conner
Interesting post, and I love your pictures. I especially like the grainless burgers, and Grandmas made a fantastic Watermelon turtle! =)
Brenda Benson
Gorgeous food- gorgeous presentation. I love it!
Danae
I love your website, it’s been so useful to me. My husband has UC and your recipes have saved us, as we have been following the SCD diet. I can’t wait to see your recipe for the Strawberry Shortcake Cupcakes!
Deanna
Love your menu for the birthday party. I must say, I was reading your disclaimer and my friend, if there are people out there that question your parenting and the way you feed your child, need to put their energy to the masses out there who put little to no effort into their children’s nutrition. As I see it, you are a super mom with the thought and effort you put into the nutrition of your little family. It takes a lot of energy and creative thought to do what you do. Keep up the good work!
Mecha
I wish my parents would have done something like this for me! I want to eat all of it!
Mecha
amber
Happy birthday to your son, Danielle! What an amazing birthday spread. Really…it’s truly amazing. As someone who has several birthday parties under her belt, I know how much work it is to prepare all the food. I love all your recipes. I too make allergy-friendly food/auto-immune friendly food for parties…partly because I want to eat it , but also because I know it’s the healthier choice.
Here’s to many more wonderful years, precious memories, and healthy food-minded parties. 🙂
Katherine C
GREAT THEME, love the decor, presentation!!!! you pulled off the most amazing party, Bravo !!! I only wish we had been invited, my son turns 4 this Sat.. So we, well me, could have tasted those yum-yums.. My son, as yours, would not have ate, but rather off playing with friends… Thanks you for sharing your tips, and life with me/us. God Bless your heart … Eating better, feeding our engines better ~ is great self-care and very loving.. woo-hoo!!!
Katherine C
Ya hit a home run !!!!! well done !! GREAT THEME, love the decor, presentation!!!! you pulled off the most amazing party, Bravo !!! I only wish we had been invited, my son turns 4 this Sat.. So we, well me, could have tasted those yum-yums.. My son, as yours, would not have ate, but rather off playing with friends… Thanks you for sharing your tips, and life with me/us. God Bless your heart … Eating better, feeding our engines better ~ is great self-care and very loving.. woo-hoo!!!
Allie
Wonderful party. Wonderful mommy. Great ideas and beautiful photos. Scrumptious food. Grandma’s fruit deco is fabulous.
Thanks for sharing so many delicious recipes!
j3nn
OMG, that’s a wonderful birthday food spread!! You’d never know it was grain/sugar-free. I’d love to have that at my party and I’m turning 33! 🙂 I love everything about it. Great job, and great photos!
Gillian
Hi Danielle,
This looks like a terrific menu. I wanted to say that I’m sorry that you have had to tolerate criticism of your parenting skills, especially since your amazing blog is the catalyst. You seem like an amazing mom who makes well-informed, reasonable dietary decisions for your son. I plan on providing the same dietary regime when I am a parent. Critics should be ashamed for intruding on your business.
Also, I can’t wait for your strawberry shortcake cupcakes recipe!!!
Michelle
OMG! Everything looks so wonderful. Sounds like your little guy really enjoyed himself. My daughter has been on SCD for just over two weeks now and I can honestly say it is so overwhelming and scary when you start it. I am so happy I found your website, it has given me some comfort and peace of mind that I can do this. We’ve made quite a few of your recipes now and absolutely love them! Thank you for all your hard work.
Laura Jo
Love! Love! Love! What a lucky little guy to have you for his mommy!! This is an amazing feast and …and one I believe I must duplicate! Thank you for all the great ideas and recipes. – LJ
Polkadotmommy
Love your disclaimer. 🙂 As the mom, you get to raise your child exactly as you see fit. I get all kinds of comments from family about our “restrictive” diets. . . four of us need it due to Celiac, one of the other boys needs it because he has depression/adhd issues (leaky gut!). But people still don’t understand and like to place judgement all the time.
The party food looks fabulous! I think I’ll have to make the 50/50 skewers, what a great twist! I’m just learning to like (love) bacon now that I’m off standard American crap food. . . it’s a weird change for me. We are planning a back to school blast for my middle school daughter who is Celiac (and grain free) so this menu may be a perfect fit!
Liz
Thank you so much for your birthday menu! My birthday is coming up and this looks like the perfect menu for my party:) I especially love the watermelon turtle and the great pictures! I love all of your recipes and appreciate you sharing your ideas. I have been gluten and dairy free, except for some goat cheese, since February of last year due to a lot of digestive issues that were never properly diagnosed and I know that deleting both gluten and dairy have continually worked for me:) I feel great and have tons of energy. Keep the recipes and menus coming! And a great big thank you!
Sara
That looks great! My girls have birthdays coming up and this gave me some good ideas. Thanks!
Caralyn @ glutenfreehappytummy
what gorgeous party food! i love how you set up the buffet in such a cute display! It all looks gorgeous and super delicious!
Trista
Love your menu and food looks absolutely fabulous! Thanks for posting the pictures and menu. I think your disclaimer was so well stated. I have to tell you that your blog (and others like it ) make me feel like I can make this paleo concept work. You make it seem like it is possible even if it isn’t perfect. I think the idea of attempting perfection keeps many people from the benefits of paleo because they think “I can’t do this 100% so why bother”. With a family this transition to paleo is a process. Thank you so much for your blog and making those of us that are not perfect as least feel normal.
Gina Mannion
Love this post! Where can I find the recipes for the cookie and cupcakes? Thank you!
Cara
I can’t imagine why anyone would have a word to say about your parenting or what you feed your kid. I’d be delighted if I saw this spread at one of my friend’s kid’s birthdays!
Christie B.
Wow! What a spread!! I pride myself on my parties (always Paleo food, because of food intolerances in our family, and because we like the way we feel eating this way), but they’re NOTHING compared to this. My boys saw the picture and asked if we could have a party like that. LOL We’re going to a picnic this weekend, and we will certainly be making those meatball skewers! They look soooo good!
I’m sorry you have to ask people to keep their comments to themselves about your lack of Paleo purity. I’ve seen many things out there like that lately, and I think it stinks. You’re doing the best you can (and need to) for your family, just like the rest of us.
Now, will you please (pretty please) share with me how you make that Thai curry recipe into a dipping sauce?? I’d love to know! And what are the sauces on your table in the photo? Looks like the green one is guacamole, and maybe the yellow one is a mustard sauce or a curry sauce?? I need more dips!
nikkipolani
I love how beautiful you made this special day and how much careful thought went into each food choice. I don’t understand why anyone would criticize your parenting — there’s absolutely nothing unhealthy about these foods. Thank you for all you do to test and research your recipes.
Maggiemac
Yum! We done. You are fine example for the rest of us to follow.
Alisa Boboltz
Great post!!
Heather
The paleo police can go hang out with the vegan police. you rock!
Kristy
I love your disclaimer at the end. Since we changed the way we eat, and our girls have gone along with it so willingly, it amazes me how angry people get at the choices we’ve made. Your blog is awesome and the party was ADORABLE!!!!
Kristin
i just want to say I LOVE your parenting philosophy. i eat paleo because of health issues too, my husband does it primarily because he loves meat/eggs/fat and is too lazy to make his own food, doesn’t feel well when he eats gluten, and likes how the food i make tastes. so its an easy choice for him. my kids will NOT be eating “paleo”. nor will they know what paleo is. i’m not talking about foods as being bad versus good, not restricting a single thing from my kids diet, and they will eat ‘paleo’ at home because that is what we will have around, otherwise they can make their own choices. i also am not going to hear any crap about it. of course, if my kids have legitimate health issues then it may be different. but i want my kids to have the most normal relationship with food and the most carefree upbringing as possible. love your choice and it validates my own beliefs about what i’ll be doing with my family.
Jordan
I would LOVE that ranch dressing/dip recipe!
Rose P.
So happy to find your site. I’m planning a party and wanted to have a grain free menu. I was wracking my brain on what to serve our non paleo guests. I love your spread! Could you share how you cooked the meatballs? I have the Eat Like a Dinosaur cookbook, so I have the recipe. I’m just a rookie in the kitchen and I’m also always afraid of undercooking foods, yet, i dont want to end up with dry meatballs. I’m thinking of preparing them in the oven. Could you give me some tips?
Against All Grain
We grilled them but I forget how long they took. I think I just kept testing them for doneness. The oven would work too but beware of a big mess if you do it that way because of the fat from the bacon!
Denise
Help! I am having a double birthday party tomorrow for my children (4 & 6). They have the same birthday (no that wasn’t planned 😉 so this is a big day at our house. I wanted to do a veggy spread with dip and love this menu. Where are the recipes?
We eat an almost pure paleo diet. I have made many of your recipes and they never fail me. We started eating like this because of health issues and allergies, but even as we heal and are able to eat more outside of the paleo diet, I choose to stay within the perimeters with very few exceptions. Mainly, because this is such a wonderfully healthy way to eat and feed your family.
I would like to make the ranch dip but can’t find the recipe.
You are an amazing woman and mother. I have been so criticized for feeding my children the way I do. People feel sorry for them because I don’t feed them garbage. Americans truly have no idea what deprivation is. I ignore the ignorant and walk the narrow path for our peace, health and happiness.
Thank you so much for the countless time and energy you have put into these recipes and sharing them with us. I appreciate all you have added to our dinner plates and our desserts! Many many blessings to you and your family – who are so blessed to have you!
Against All Grain
Sorry for just responding to this now, but I hope everything out well!
Julie
Thank you so much for this post and your disclaimer. I have many food intolerances and follow a diet very close to Paleo. I recently have eliminated all grains to see how my body reacts. I am a mother of a beautiful 8 month old baby who is my pride and joy. From the time I started announcing that I was pregnant I started being asked how I would feed my son. And now that he is eating solids the comments and questions are becoming more and more critical. I swear to all that is holy, I’m on the brink of cutting the next person that suggest that they know what is better for my child than I do. ; ) kidding, kinda. All that aside, I have been looking for a book or website that focuses on introducing solids and raising a child on whole foods. Do you know if something like this exists? Thank you!!
Against All Grain
Yes! There’s a book I found very helpful with my little one, called “The Healthy Baby Code” by Chris Kresser.
Tamara
My daughter is having her 6th birthday party this week and I’ve been stressing over what to serve as I have recently started paleo eating and the thought of filling my table with junk causes me anxiety, but so too does a room full of fussy 6years olds used to sugary party food. So glad I found this site! I will still do some non-paleo food but at least I have some great ideas and plenty of healthy and yummy food to serve. Thanks so much for sharing.
Elena
Wow, great post! in september I have the first birthday of my little son Unai, and this recipes will be for sure!
And about the disclaimer.. well, I live in Spain and people think I am crazy, including doctors (and some almost suggested that I am not such a good mother) only for not giving him cereal creams, and other baby food, but only organic homemade food…
but in the end, one just stops giving explanations to people and doing what you think it’s better for him!!
Sorry for my english!!
Leslee
Where is the recipe for these?
-Double Chocolate Chip Cupcakes (in the book!)
I have the cookbook but don’t see them? Which boo are you referring to for the double chocolate chip cupcakes? Is it the brownie recipe made into cupcakes?
Danielle
Leslee, those cupcakes are my chocolate layer cake recipe from the book baked as cupcakes! 🙂