
Cannon : “Mommy why are you crying at your new cookbook?”
Cannon's mom : “Because there's just so many things in here that you can eat.”
After starting my blog and subsequently writing my book, I started hearing more and more of the benefits of a grain and dairy free diet for children diagnosed with autism or Aspergers. I received a lot of emails from families that transitioned their children to a grain/dairy free diet and start seeing results, but I didn't know just how many families were using my recipes to help heal their children, while introducing joy back into their lives through food again. Cannon exhibits behaviors associated with autism and his mom is healing his body one day at a time with a Paleo-type diet.
She came out to one of my signings and asked me to sign the book to Cannon, not her, because he is the one that loves my recipes. She, like many other families along my tour, told me stories of how he refused to eat most foods prior to my recipes, and how she wept with joy when she flipped through the pages and saw a plethora of grain and dairy foods that she could make and he could enjoy. His mom was brave enough to share a bit more on their story to figuring out his food sensitivities and how the change has affected them. Find it at the bottom of this post.

So many families told me of how their kids refused to switch their diets and had food aversions, until they tried my recipes and are now managing their symptoms and willingly eating my creations! Nothing hurts worse than seeing your children suffering, and nothing brings more delight to a parent than seeing their children joyful!
These stories were positively the most impactful of the many I heard throughout my trip. So often, in the Paleo community, treats and recreations of “SAD” diet foods are scoffed at and looked down upon. Understandably so for those that come to the Paleo lifestyle looking to lose weight or break unhealthy food addictions. But unfairly for those that eat this way out of necessity.
But unfairly for those that eat this way out of necessity.
To me, a Paleo ‘treat' is a way for me to cope with the changes I have been forced to make and eat from time to time when I would otherwise have possibly cheated and taken a bite of a gluten-filled baked good. That baked good would have had severe impact on my body for weeks if not months, so a nut and honey based treat is perfectly acceptable in my opinion! Those baked goods were the things that made the diet sustainable for me when I was in despair about being diagnosed with a lifelong disease and having to radically change my diet on top of everything else. Over time, I've found that I need less and less, and also found that I cannot tolerate eating them every day, but it's comforting to know that they are there when I need them. After this tour, even more than before, I will stand behind those fun foods that I included in my book. Even if 1 single child can experience joy through my food and not feel ostracized, then my job is done!
even more than before, I will stand behind those fun foods that I included in my book.

I plan to start digging in over the next couple of months and researching the connection between diet and these brain disorders. I want to try to keep creating recipes that will help nourish and heal these sweet children and help to guide any families that happen to stumble on my website. So thank you to all of you who shared your personal stories of struggle and success with me along my tour route. It blessed me beyond measure to hear the love, concern, and overall hope you had for your children.
Check out the rest of the tour schedule and some new dates
that I recently added! And be on the lookout for another tour that will start in the Fall!
photo used with permission from Cannon's mom
Cannon's Story
- mood (i.e.: hyperactive, sad, overwhelmed, anxious, frustrated);
- behavior (i.e.: aggressive, demanding, oppositional, combative, explosive), and;
- health (i.e.: stomach ache, itchy, headache, fever, nausea, red cheeks, dizzy).
Becky
Yay!!! I love Cannon’s story! So inspiring! Glad he can eat treats, waffles, burgers & more while healing his body!
Shelly Richardson
Danielle, keep on keeping on… you are a blessing to so many people with your story and your recipes. And Cannon’s mom, I hope you are reading these comments… you are a rockstar in that little boys life, I know, I have a daughter just like him. And that smile on Cannon’s face? Heart melting! Thanks, for sharing your story!
Danielle M.
Thank you, Shelly!! -Danielle (Cannon’s Mom)
Betsy Pittman
Felt like I was reading our story. Our 8 year old is Autistic as well, much like Cannon, we have found significant improvements through instituting a Paleo-ish diet for her. We have been working this for about 4 solid months now, and while it’s still a struggle with getting her to accept some things … These challenges far outweigh the initial challenges! Thank you for all you do, your efforts and dedication help many improve their lives, ours included!
Amber
Hi Danielle,
What a powerful story! I am sure this resonates with many (I started working with children/teens/adults with Autism Spectrum Disorder 15 years ago…and know the struggle from a distance, but still close to home as it was my life for so long). Thank you for sharing.
I’ve been keeping up on your posts.
I returned home last week from vacation from Monterey…and guess what was waiting for me!! Your book. I cannot put it down. My husband (who is learning to cook) was thrilled he could make me ANYTHING in this book. He was like, “So you both have IBD…so you can eat anything in here!” And I replied, “You got it babe…so get cookin’!” He was so excited.
I’ve been waiting for this book and I’m just so excited. I have so many recipes tagged.
Congratulations!
Thanks Danielle, and good luck on the rest of your tour!
xo,
–Amber
Michelle
Danielle, when I came across your blog it was like a Hallelujah moment for us. It has been a go to for my daughter who has autism. You have helped me deal with the anxiety I had when we were first told to put her on the Specific Carbohydrate Diet. Believe me, I cried a lot. It is remarkable how the food she eats can have such an impact on her behaviour and mood. She’s eating clean and proper food and we know if she has ever come into contact with something that she’s not supposed to be eating. I was utterly excited for your cookbook to come out, and was so happy when I had it in hands. It’s got a few creases in it already. So thank you from the bottom of our family’s hearts. You have truly been a godsend. God bless you!
Cassidy @ Cassidy's Craveable Creations
Hi Danielle!
I CANNOT WAIT to get my hands on a copy of your book! We initially started a gluten and dairy free diet for my son back in 2009. He has sensory processing disorder, aspergers, and oppositional defiance disorder and we’ve seen a HUGE change in his behavior and his health since starting the diet. Besides gluten and dairy he also cannot have food coloring and we stay away from refined sugar and soy.
I frequently make your recipe and we love them, thank you so much for all the hard work!
Hugs,
Cassidy
Amy
I’m so happy to hear that other parents of children with autism have experienced the same relief and joy we’ve found in your new cookbook, Danielle. Sadly, autism and GI disease are very common, and my son is no exception. My son’s symptoms GI symptoms were very severe. He had to eliminate solid food and follow a liquid elemental diet for 2 years to manage his symptoms, and faced long term use of immunosuppressant therapy, which I refused. After much research on diet, we were finally able to reintroduce foods using SCD, but it was a struggle to keep food enjoyable. I always felt like I had to choose between dietary compliance and his happiness. Not anymore! Your recipes are phenomenal! Yummy, normal, fun…all the things my son needs right now. I’ve owned the book two weeks and I’ve already cooked 16 different recipes, and all were simple to prepare with successful results. I think I could spend the next year feeding my family from this book alone. THANK YOU!
Heather
I’d like to suggest you read Dr. Natasha Campbell-McBride’s book Gut And Psychology Syndrome when you start researching your diet and brain disorder topic. It has changed my view of food forever! Very well written and easy to understand. I also truly love that your faith is evident in your posts 🙂
Karen
I was also going to recommend this book. My 4 year old son has been gluten and dairy free for 10 months now and we’ve seen great improvements in his behavior; now we are moving toward grain and sugar free as well with the GAPS diet. The GAPS book really is great at explaining what the connection is between the gut and the brain. I truly believe that in 10-20 years, many MANY diseases, conditions, and mental health issues will finally be identified for what they really are: gut issues!
Gretchen
I enthusiastically second this motion. The GAPS book literally saved my life, and has restored my physical & mental health and my happiness. I will add, though, that I believe a college level microbiology class provided a much needed background that helped me fully benefit from reading the GAPS book (and I read it 3 times) and later helped with understanding the science of truly anaerobic fermentation (not covered in GAPS, but discussed in detail by intentionallydomestic.com/). My husband said he feels like he has his wife back. His severe allergies are gone. He no longer takes obscene amounts of painkillers for knee and back pain. I have been researching the gut-brain connection and healing thereof through diet for over a year, literally hundreds of hours (probably well over 1,000 but I lost count). I have organized and saved all of my research here if you’re interested: https://drive.google.com/folderview?id=0ByNo0knYDwScLWJlOUFzSmQ5aE0&usp=sharing. I just found out about your cookbook a couple weeks ago and immediately ordered it. Since Full GAPS is essentially Paleo with a few minor differences, we can eat everything in your book. Every single recipe I have tried turned out perfectly. Also, many (although NOT all) GAPS recipes seem to be focused on “get it done” (and I have saved and organized over 700 of them by GAPS stages and been cooking them for 14 months), whereas I find that many Paleo cooks, such as yourself, are interested in the food actually tasting delicious. My husband and I are foodies, and we are sincerely grateful for your hard work. It is a blessing to finally have a collection of recipes I can rely on turning out well the first time and not have to “fix” them. Although I do enjoy experimenting and making recipes my own, there are times I really appreciate a truly reliable resource. Thank you. Also, I found your story very inspiring. It adds an essential personal touch. I commend your bravery for sharing it.
Kristine
Hi Danielle,
I’ve been following your blog for about 9 months now and love your recipes and beautiful photography. I stumbled across the paleo diet while researching healthy diets for my four children. I have food intolerances, as do three of my four children. Eighteen months ago we had our second son assessed for autism. The diagnosis was that, although he was not on the spectrum, he does have an asperger-type brain with some of the characteristics of the condition. I often think he is borderline ADHD too. Around the same time I had a food sensitivity blood test done that showed he was extremely intolerant to dairy. I kind of knew it, but needed the blood test to be able to convince our son he had to give it up. He is now like a different child. None of the concerns we had before are present anymore. The old behaviours only resurface when his diet slips. Our whole family follows a gluten free, dairy free, preservative and refined sugar free diet. We have eliminated much more grain and are pretty much a paleo family. My children have not had a sandwich in their school lunches all year. Instead they go to school with thermoses of home made soup in winter or tuna or chicken salads in the summer. It’s more work for me, and I get up earlier now to make your grain free waffles each day.
What staggers me is the lack of connection mainstream medicine makes between diet and health. There are too many stories to ignore of children and adults whose conditions have been eradicated or vastly improved through dietary changes. I have been fortunate to use a family doctor for many years who is also a naturopath. He has helped me navigate my food intolerances. More recently I have been taking our third son to a nutritionist/psychologist/neuroscientist. I felt I needed a health professional who was completely focused on healing through diet and nutritiion. I don’t think you can get that from a mainstream doctor – their training just doesn’t allow them to think that way. Our third son has low energy, poor concentration and I think is nutrient deficient. He has been much better since supplementing his healthy diet with some key nutrients like cod liver oil and vitamin D.
You mentioned you wanted to research the gut/brain connection further. You might find some helpful reading on the following site, which is that of the new doctor we have been seeing: https://www.adhd.com.au/
I love your recipes and am eagerly awaiting the arrival of your book in the mail. I have learned so much through the health and food blog community. Of all of them, yours is my favourite.
Good luck with the continued success of your book.
Kristine
traceyjay
I did GAPS for 2 months at the beginning of the year, and am working towards implementing more grain free, and I agree — your recipes are really kid and family friendly! Excited to try more of them!
Catherine Calverri
When you start doing more research on Autism I would recommend hooking up with Dr. Patrick Flynn out of Wisconsin. He believes in healing via foods too. https://thewellnesswayclinics.com/
He is also on facebook. I have listened to I’m speak and he is phenomenal.
Meredith
So inspiring, so wonderful to hear. Thank you for spreading and enabling health!
Jessica
I’m hoping to start switching my kids to a paleo/primal diet here gradually. With my daughter it should be easy, she’ll eat anything. It’s my son who is the real challenge. He won’t eat meat, or most fruits, or most veggies, or anything with the texture of bread (so no bread, cookies, cake, etc), or most dairy, or legumes, or nuts or seeds, or many other foods that randomly just don’t look or feel right to him. It doesn’t matter how I prepare these foods, he won’t touch them, and I have had very little success hiding them in his foods, he always detects them. He is too picky even for the SAD! On top of that, he has food allergies to eggs and soy. The soy allergy is not an issue for a paleo diet, but egg most certainly is. The allergy is severe enough to cause vomiting and swelling within a few minutes after eating/contact, so it’s hard to work around. His doctors were hopeful he would grow out of it (most kids grow out of egg allergies) but its looking less likely since he passed his fifth birthday. If he makes it to 10 with the allergy symptoms still occurring, it’s not likely he’ll ever grow out of it.
We’re getting ready to get him into eating therapy to see if we can get him to start eating better. I figure if I can get him to start trying meat and veggies, that will be where we start. I’m hoping a grain free diet will maybe help his body to heal up the allergies. We’ll see. Since removing soy from his diet he finally started gaining some weight, though he’s still very thin. but I can always tell when a family member has either slipped up and given him soy, or decided that it won’t hurt anything to give him some (usually chocolate, almost all chocolate on the market has soy in it) because his soy allergy doesn’t have an external reaction like the egg allergy does. I can tell because his appetite decreases and he stops eating anything. My poor baby.
Gretchen
He may be allergic to eggs that come from chickens fed corn and/or soy. You may want to look into local farmers who offer corn and soy free eggs. I have heard of other people’s egg allegies disappearing when trying this option, or switching to duck eggs. Best wishes to you.
Connie S
It is so encouraging to hear of others who have dramatically improved their autistic or ADHD children’s lives through diet intervention. We have discovered that removing the same offending foods as autistic parents have had success with has had a huge impact on our right-brain learner, children whom are often diagnosed as dyslexic, learning disabled, or simply thrown into the ADHD category, can have the same healing results. Our now 11 year old was reading at the kindergarten level at the end of third grade, was undergoing vision therapy, and had a boat-load of emotional/mood issues. It was nothing short of amazing to see those issues dissolve once gluten, additives, HFC, and sugar were removed from her diet. Thank you for promoting this change in health that so many families and children can benefit from!
Becca
Thank you so very, very much for your beautiful cookbook! I have three boys, one with Asperger’s Syndrome and tow more with “spectrum-ish” behaviors. My Aspie is difficult to please when it come to GF/DF foods, and your treats are the only ones he likes. Can’t wait for your next cookbook!!
Tacie
I love this. I am a 40 year old Mom who happens to have Aspergers. Diet alone has healed my body and mind to the point where people do not believe I have Aspergers. It becomes more obvious if I “cheat” as I begin to lose focus along with my ability to connect and relate to people well. This blog and cookbook have been a saving grace in our household. My son and I both love the recipes and it gives me a way to cook for both of us where he does not feel deprived by eating the way I need to and I can keep things that might tempt me on a bad day out of the house. He has a blast cooking along with me and can often be found pouring over recipes and asking me to try new ones. His current loves are the zucchini bread, pesto and crepes. Thanks for taking the time to create recipes that are not simply Gluten, grain and dairy free. They are are recipes that taste great and are fun to serve. Being able to have people over and have them enjoy eating what I make that is also safe for me has been a true pleasure.
Car
Tracie,
Would you mind telling what foods you avoided? What foods helped you? Anything that helped you so I can help my child get your results or the best results for him.
Thank you,
Carol.
The Saffron Girl
What an inspiring story from Cannon and his mother. Danielle, you’re amazing and so is your blog and now cookbook!
Briana
Here’s a great blog on the brain gut connection, with research links. Best I’ve found yet.
https://questioning-answers.blogspot.com
Melissa Carr
You are such an ANGEL♥ I would not be able to make it to meet you, but I can tell from your eyes and your smile I would not leave without a hug!!
It has been a long process to find simple, dairy-free, gluten-free recipes! Just the simple pancakes are a joy:)
It has only been 2 months for me now since going gluten-free/dairy free. My Grandmother was diagnosed 2 years ago, but I never thought I could have it too. I can remember growing up battling bloating, eczema and horrible sinus issues that I had to rotate through sinus medication to be able to breathe.
It is a new concept in my family to correlate diet with health. I grew up drinking milk like crazy, and eating so much wheat, no wonder I felt bloated!
It seems like a no-brainer, but I finally figured it out when my body said “Too much” by giving me blistering eczema around my mouth and eyes. I started with eliminating gluten, then chocolate, caffeine, and dairy. Then I discovered Oil pulling. I do it 2-3x/day before eating with Organic EV Coconut Oil.
I did reintroduce gluten accidently when I bought the wrong soy sauce! I had the worst sinus headache, gas and stuffiness. I am watching closer now, and no episodes. I have a little redness which is barely noticeable, and I have a ton of energy without bloat!! Hallelujah!!
I am making my plans for all of your wonderful recipes! Plus, I see in the future getting one for my Grandma who would LOVE it!
Keep it up:) {{HUGS}}
Lynn
Am so glad a friend discovered your cookbook. Subsequently, so have I! I have ulcerative colitis and need to take 2800 mg of Asacol HD per day. It has helped, but I sure would like to get off the meds! So, am going to start trying your recipes.
Am wondering, have you been able to completely eliminate your medications through your altered diet?
Thanks!
Against All Grain
I was able to avoid remicade and decrease mesalamine but I am not fully off it yet as precaution with all of the stress from traveling and the book.
Roxanne
My son was diagnosed with Autism when he was 6 years old. We knew, though, by the time he was 3 and I finally noticed he flapped (among many other issues including tactile and sensory sensitivities and food tolerance issues). He was hospitalized after a serious peanut allergic reaction and his sensitivities seemed to multiply. By the time he was 6 we were told to cut gluten and dairy from his diet…no easy feat when your son will only eat chicken, fries and hotdogs. We’ve struggled for years…until I found Against all Grain. My husband is a trained chef and enthusiastically makes the recipes (and recreates them in a different way sometimes) for our whole family. Our son is now 10 and more foods are open to him thanks to Danielle first and formost. He has never been medicated (a personal choice) and he thrives. Thanks Danielle!
Tracy Haughton
Dear Danielle: Cannon’s story is moving and I agree with you that: ‘Nothing hurts worse than seeing your children suffering, and nothing brings more delight to a parent than seeing their children joyful! ‘
We would love your help in reaching parents who are interested in learning more about the link between food and behavior and health for their children and themselves. We are a SF Bay Area group sponsoring the talk: IS TODAY’S FOOD DAMAGING OUR KIDS’ MENTAL AND PHYSICAL HEALTH? with Yale-trained pediatrician, Michelle Perro, MD on Sept. 17.
Dr Perro says;“For the first time in modern history our children will not be as healthy as their parents. We are seeing an epidemic of digestive, immunologic, and neurologic abnormalities that is changing the face of families, schools and society.”
Please see our website for more details. We would love to see you and your followers there.
Best wishes for the success of your tour and your book.
Tracy Haughton
Please add our website to my post: https://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/430205
Carol
Cannon’s story sounds so much like me son. We eliminated corn, gluten and peanuts at age 10 and saw a huge improvement in behavior, aggression, frustration, sadness, and difficulty in school. He is 112 now and doing great except he still has texture issues with food but we are working on that too. I want to encourage all parents to consider nutrition for healing your children. I walk through school and wonder how many kids have difficulties simply due to their diets.
Karlie C
Cannon’s story is so encouraging (btw how cute is he?!?). I have just ordered the book and I am very excited to give it a try. I have a son who has had extreme food aversions since we first tried to introduce solids. Do to his lack of weight gain (and my own fear and lack of knowledge as a new mom), the doctors and nutritionist put him on Pediasure. On one hand, it provided him the calories he needed to sustain himself at a very young age. On the other hand, it is made in a laboratory with a ton of sugar and artificial ingredients. Now, 3 years later, he is totally addicted to it. He eats some foods (and I make sure those are high quality) but is not open to trying new things. His behavior and now his skin suffers from the gross Pediasure and while it is going to be heartbreakingly hard I am ready to take it away. He is a wonderful kid who turns into a nightmare when his blood sugar drops. If any of you experienced mamas have advice on trying to get him to try the food in this cookbook, I would really appreciate it. How are some of you, particularly mom’s with food-challenged kiddos, moving them toward these grain-free options when they are so averse to change? Help ! 🙂
Heidi
Danielle, my whole family now has your cookbook and is loving everything coming out of it! We did have one question for you though…How on earth is your Famous Sandwich Bread WHITE inside?? We have made it half a dozen times now and it is always brown. What is the secret??
Wendy Hagen
Oh my word. Tears. love this. And how cute is Cannon?
RMM
Thank you! I have a son with autism and other health challenges, and his brother also has the same autoimmune disease as him. We are going to buy your book and try eating more Paleo, because my autistic son is struggling so much lately with things like stomach aches, etc. I am tired of having my kids be sick and tired.
Theresa
Danielle,
My son has Asperger’s/adhd and tourettes. When he was three he was seriously speech delayed, they knew he was bright but couldn’t guarantee me anything. Our first step was gluten/dairy/Feingold(dye, preservatives, nitrates, high fructose) free. He has many therapies, but the single most impacting change was the diet. It allowed everything else to work. He is 9 now, has always been in a regular classroom but with a support person. In kindergarten the support person was all day, he is down to just an hour a day now in third grade. Today was the firs day finding your site, it is wonderful. I signed up for the weekly recipes. I gave you a bit of my story because if you need to get “details” from anyone for your research, I would love to provide you any info concerning what we went through. I am new to paleo, found it in trying to do something that would fit with my entire family(my husband is diabetic, I am overweight and probably pre-diabetic). Thanks for all the great work.
La' Vie Healing Maison
LOVE YOUR SITE,& AGAINST ALL GRAIN MYSELF,IT HAS NOT BEEN IN MY DIET FOR 15 YEARS,BUT ON OCCASION I DO ENJOY A CINNAMON ROLL,CARROT CAKE,OATMEAL RAISIN COOKIE………………..GRAINS ARE HIGHLY ACIDIC.i AM ALSO AN AKALINE WATER MACHINE DISTRIBUTOR,& STARTING CHANGING MY DIET IN ORDER TO LIVE AN AKALINE DIET…………..
Life,Love & Health,
Suzanne Duffy